Monday, April 15, 2013

家教是什么?

我家
妈是一家之主
无可否认
因为他是家的经济主枝
全家人都得听他的
包括我爸

也因为如此
从小得看的脸色过
出门时。。不是要通知那么简单。。而是要拿到允许
而他反对的时候不会说。。只会给全家人最臭的脸色
而因此
我家四兄妹
身边的朋友少之又少
每每次朋友约我们出去
99%的几率是出不去
久而久之
没什么朋友约自己了
连朋友生日会,她也可以反对

想说:
亲爱的妈妈
不是我们怕你
只是尊敬你
你这个势力不会一直存在
你的女儿,包括妹妹
早就想离开这个家
要不是还在求学
我们早就出去了
若是别人家小孩
在你这样的势力下生活,早就离家出走

以前在宿舍
你打电话来
知道我们在唱K 或看电影
你就说我们在乱花钱
而下一次跟你拿零用钱时,少给一点(理由:你都有多余的钱去花费,就少给你一点)
还一次
在hotel intern 的时候,你知道hotel包括了食物
你一句话。。反正车油有卡刷。。hotel 有食物吃,宿舍的钱我给了。。你应该不用零用钱
这句话。。让我傻了。。
你就那么希望你的孩子因为忧惧症而自杀吗??
就不能给点钱让我们去娱乐下吗?
真的希望你的孩子都没有朋友吗??

你不能怪你的儿子的女友都是通过网上认识的
也不能怪你的孩子回到家不是电视就是电脑
那99%是你造成的
不让你的孩子不去和朋友见面
若我们出去了
你就心想:我们有钱出去跟朋友。。就代表我们很有钱
你不能怪你孩子每次红包钱都不让你收银行
这是因为每次你有这样的想法
我们就得用那些红包钱
而且。。我朋友连续几天来我们家
你的脸也会黑。。说我的朋友教坏我~!!!!
难道一直出门的孩子就是坏孩子么?
告诉你:往往那些一直出门的朋友以后多半会是成功的人
他们一直闯这社会、知道这社会大大小小的事
而你的孩子。。你都恨不得不给我们出去
还希望我们以后做工时。。最好在家附近的工厂
上班放工都得让他看在眼里

前阵子
帮你教车、载人
答应了一个月RM300的工钱
不到三个月
你却问我存到多少钱了么?
我哪来钱存呀?
300一个月能吃几餐
我在subang读书
放学跟朋友吃个东西。。就快用完了
电话费自己给。。
我哪来的本事存钱亚。。
看个电影也得让我考虑久久。。
出街买衣买鞋更不用说
身边的朋友都佩服我花钱的本事~

朋友约我去旅行
多过两次
你就说我朋友教坏我。。
连续两天出门罢了。。
你就我脚花。。四处乱走。。
你想怎样?
我跟朋友出去
你就给我脸色看。。
听你的话没出去
你就说脚生在我身上,没让我不去。。
若我不听你的话。。。
你就告知全天下
让后让阿姨他们来念我。。
你赢~!!!!

Sunday, February 24, 2013

A great new lesson from JPJ malaysia

A new lesson for me this morning
Caught by jpj while helping my mum look after for her student while my mum went for toilet.

The story start by my mum had to go for toilet while waiting her student drive to across the mountain.
As others had their pre-exam and the tester disallow learner across the mountain as long as there are hv pre- exam students taking their exam.
My mum have not choice and SMS me asking for help her look after her student for few minute as the student is a new learner where can't control the car probably and we are the first car in the row.
I just sit in the car and suddenly the tester allow us over the mountain.
Then I just ask the student drive and move to a empty parking slot.

In few second, 2 Malay guy come and block my car from both side(my side and driver side)
I never see these guy before and i don't know who are them.
They start ask me to show out teaching license( SPIM).
The first thing come to my mind is other new teaching teacher is annoying me..
I just ignore what they say as both of them never tell me who are them and without wearing uniform
They shout to me again and again at least 5 times and I start take serious..
They want my ic and car license as they said I break the rules for teaching..
I was cheat them by saying my purse in beg and I can't take it. ( I can't simply pass my ic to people I duno.. He force me to out from my car and take my ic there..
Hence, I go out from my car and faster call to my mum..
The Malay guy saw my ic while I calling my mum as my ic just at my hp cover..
He start follow me while I keep ignore he shouting me and forcing me to pass my ic and license for him.
Meanwhile, the other guy had force the student to give them his ic and he took away the car key..

I start get panic after I met my mum as my mum get start get shock after seeing them walk behind me..
He force my mum to take out her teaching license and car permit.. Of course.. He still want my ic and license too.. But I keep ignore until my mum ask me to do that.. Btw. I just gave them my ic but not license..
My mum explain the detail about I am not teaching car while just look after as she really went for toilet while there are so many people see the truth..
The Malay guy talk to the student in a corner and ask some question..
The other Malay guy keep saying my mum break the rules where she should not allow I sit in the car.
He said my mum should stop the car at a side or let the student drive alone while if not accident will happen.. Lolz..
My mind come with question where the student will drive safety without an experience driver~
Of course, my mum say the same thing to them and they quite..
But the two Malay guys still dun want give back out permit and license..
They want meet the manager.. Lolz..

The continues story I have no idea about it as I had brought out with my mum's fren.
I can't deny that I had cry after I claim down..
flash back bout how scary with 2 unknown block the car and shout at me.. Forcing me to give my ic and license...
Both of them looks gangster when ask question without telling me who are them..
The story end with the two guys could not caught me as my mum 口供 are same with the student as the truth I only go in the car few minute ago while my mum make a excuse..

Hmm.. I get a new and special experience..
Going interest with the Malaysia rules and regulations..
I hv to find out the citizen right and check how the fine for pihak Berkuasa working without uniform..
Wondering how Malaysia safety had been secure by police without uniform and tag while with a gangster sound~!!
Police without uniform and code can come for catch!!
I regret that I didn't capture their face record their sound!! Hmm.. I'm not enough claim..
Should improve myself for own citizen right~
Nvm.. Learn from this lesson~!
One day~ I will sue u back~ be ready!! Gangster JPJ!!

Friday, January 18, 2013

好难过~~

第一次花自己的钱,养自己家的小狗
虽然它只不过是个菜狗
但是
因为想证明给家人看咱们家也可以养活小狗
而努力、特别细心的照顾它。。
每天早上喝下午都自己去喂他们狗饼
最近还买了零食给他玩
家里的狗从来没那么好命过
但因为自己最近教了补习
都把钱花在他身上了。。

我哥在他公司抓了一只被虐待的狗
本来只是以为它是过度active..
就把他们养在一起
而今天
知道妹喂了他们狗饼而没去看它
而突然听到我的狗狗惨叫~
就去看下

就发现它倒下了
上去看
发现它的颈项湿湿的
发现它被另一只狗咬了
还伤不浅
几乎都不能呼吸了

好难过
自己也帮不了它什么
不停的抚摸它
它也掉泪了
T_T
不想亲眼看它离开
就走开
哪知,几分钟后
我妹叫了我
它说狗狗好像要找我
因为他不停的看着门
听了真的很辛酸
又去抚摸它几下
它努力的摇尾巴
看着它
真的很难过、超难过的
T_T

而跟妈约好出门
所以没再看它了
回到家
知道它走了
更难过了
T_T

我的A..A..kio~
当初你一到我家是最吵的一只
不停的A~A~叫
才取你的名叫A..A..
最喜欢你的耳朵
永远直直的
很多次都问你你耳朵不算吗??
总是傻傻跟在我脚下
当我拿出你爱吃的食物就不停往我脚上跳
虽然你来到我家才一个月多
但真的很感谢你的到来
让我的假期、在家的生活变得很精彩
A..A..希望你一路好走...

Thursday, December 6, 2012

自讨苦吃

总认为他很幸福
因为它的背后还有人愿意为他吃苦
但故事的最后
才发现
那只不过是自讨苦吃
                           —女朋友男朋友—

“爱情” 是短暂的
爱情结束后、剩下的只不过是“感情”
舍不得只不过是“习惯”
                           -张小娴-

也许就是这个“习惯”
这样的愿意在他背后为他吃苦
所以当两个拥有相同情况的人碰面了
才发现自己是那么的傻
自己的另一半过得那么甜蜜
而自己却把放弃的选择忘了
自讨苦吃的过生活


Saturday, December 1, 2012

勇气

你有勇气牵别人的手、让她做你的女朋友
那么你也得有那个勇气放开她的手、跟她说分手

朋友,加油~!

Friday, November 30, 2012

脾气

抱歉
不是你有心事就可以在这里发脾气
我们不是你的出气筒

我是人
我的时间不是上课结束后就不是我的时间
你要我做的事
不是我都得答应
没问我得空、就安排我做这做那
你是谁
我没欠你人情、没欠你债
你没资格吩咐我做事

那次背叛
我没想过这样就算了
你的要的“回报”
我不会忘记

借口

你给的借口
没能给我想给你的体谅
却带来了很多对你的失望

你说的第一个谎
就已经犯了很大的错
我没想识破你
你的下一句话
连自己的谎也遮不住

抱歉
我不想原谅你
你在我的心里又多了一个 X
你到底要在我心里留下几个 X

抱歉
我的表情你永远看不透
开心或不开心
你永远猜不到
知道我生活里的一个小细节没什么大不了
那个小细节你早就应该知道的
但你并没有
3、4个月后才发现
所以你没值得骄傲

是我的错
连发一个脾气都不会
吵架不是我的强项
而“忍”变成我就烂的缺点
就是这样
永远不会表达自己想要的
让你觉得我没主见

不体贴的
我希望我能对你发脾气

p/s: 谢谢你今天说的谎和借口,让我知道ni.....。。
 

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